The Valuable Life...

Have you ever thought.. how valuable ur life is???
u know the answer??

There is one book written by Robin Sharma..
"Who will cry when U die?"
That is a very valid question, You once ask this question to yourself and try to get the answer..
1.ur parents and family
2. ur relatives and friends
3. ur co-workers or near neighborhood.
can u tell at least 10 names who doesn't belong to the above 3 categories??
If ur answer is Yes, u r doing a good Job.Living life the way it has to be lived.
If ur ans is No, just think out of this 1.2 billion population of our country u cant even find 10 people for whom u r important other than the obvious day to day relations.

don't get angry, its not about making u feel worthless, its to make U understand ur real potential.

Do atleast 1 thing a day that make some one Smile, ur day is a worthy day.

Let me tell U about an amazing person whom I met today.
I don't want to mention his name, He is an young enthusiastic person who left his job to do some social service.
His real life story:
He used to work for a industrial company and was earning a good amount of money.
on his way to his home from office, everyday he passes by a slum area. Even we see some of those kind of slum around the city. some kids playing on roads whole day no going to school etc as u all can understand it.
By seeing them, Some feel disgusting, some show some pity and few people think "arey, we hav to do something for them, these kids are  also part of our India's future." But in action we don't do anything.
But unlike others, he wanted to do something for them and doing it, he started, started convincing the parents in that slum to send their students for tuition. because for those kids school is an alien thing.
He struggled and made it, He tell those kids about our country, freedom fighters, the great past of our Nation etc.
Seen all those slums, and how people are living and in that congested place this guy found some place to teach those children.
In every word he speak, we can see the LOVE for our country. Every word is like an inspiring quotation.
People like him are the real Heroes of our Country.
i just realized what are we?? what are we doing?? Earning for ourselves?? Spending for ourselves??
What about our country, Who will wipe the tears of our country. Is it not our duty to do something??
Atleast help a person who work in ur apartment. Help a poor kid to study, doing so u r making a healthy India.

Just realize how great out Country Was.. Why cant u say?? our country is?? is it not responsibility to save this great heritage??

Just start, think out of box. U spend 5000 rupees on a party in a good restaurant and people say bye bye in the end and that part is over.
U spend 50 rupees, help a person who is in need, the smile U see in his face is enough for u to feel the real Joy and happiness. Just try, It Works.
Never feel it as a Charity or ur r doing very big favor by helping some one.

"Its not Charity, Its Our Responsibility"

After all it is our country, only we have to save it , serve it and see it as a developed nation.
Just remember, we were never third rated in the Past before other invasions.
Some unfortunate things happened and changed India this way, Why can't we make some fortunate things to put India again on the Top.

Never ever think of the line " What this country gave to me???" - It has given u more than enough.
just ask urself  " What You have given to this country".

Am saying these things today, not to give a lecture, not to inspire you all of a sudden nor to point out people.
Just to share some real truth which everyone is very busy to realize in their own lives.

Thanks for reading this because if u read till this line, you might like our Country or me.
Happy for me in either case.. :P :D

Be Happy..
Keep Smiling... :)

Am I lovable??

Have u ever got this question in ur mind..
"Am I lovable??"
if it came, what was the answer??

There will be a time in everyone's life .. when  u feel alone and thought of the line i have said earlier.
It is when every one is busy with their own work and all the people u love to talk wont call u for days,weeks and months..

Let me clear one thing, all these are not for a LOSER, generally I feel only losers complain about life and other people.

But still i want to know why this kind of situation comes in one's life with lot of people around(1.2 billion ppl and counting).

Its because we always Love what we want and not what we have.

just want to remind the newton's third law(action-reaction).
"If you give love , u get love"
one of the back bencher in the class ask "what about one side love?? I love a girl and she doesnt care for me"
well, its a valid question, the answer is a simple question "Y do u expect?? You just love"
nothing in this universe defy the basic laws, newton's third law is not an exception.

If u give some thing, u get it for sure can be immediately, in a week , in a month or in years.

There are some rules which gives answers to this subject line.
1.The more you love this world, the more it loves you back.
2.If you want to be lovable, there is no option just love.
3.Expectations always hurt, if u expect something and u didnt get that love back. u hav 2 options-
(a) stop loving.
(b)stop expecting.
Chose the second option.
3.dont listen other people's suggestions, jst hear them and follow ur heart.
4.Just Smile, there is nobody in this world who hate smile. If u smile, You are almost lovable.
5.Spend time for yourselves.
Every one have their own positive and negative points.Just think of them,
let me just clarify, these negative points are the ones which stop others loving u.
Introspect and correct urself.

Don't know why i am giving this lecture in this late night. But when i saw some people who look dull and demotivated , wanted to tell them, who cares if u give some free advice, no body listen (might also get a punch :P.)
this blog is something lovable which listen to all my idiotic thougts..:P So I love it.

One final sentence i would like to share.

Love urself to the fullest. If u cant love urself, how can others??
Just be Yourself.. :)

Be Happy...
Keep Smiling... :)

The Most Important Day..

Raj Rules..

The Roller Coaster..

"Life is like a roller coaster ride"
You might come across the above line at some part of ur life, at least as a Quote.
I feel, it's true.. 100 %.

Am not telling this today with enthusiasm or fun. Its with the depressing mood I quoted this line.

You may wonder why this stupid writing all this without shutting his mouth and sleep.
But am writing because, I just don't want to get depressed.
am writing because, I believe that the best part of that roller coaster ride is yet to come in a short while.
All right, the main reason for this is "its a Sunday and i went to office". :P :D

About this Roller Coaster (life)..
You know how a big roller coaster ride will be, u need not go for a ride bt u can imagine as u see in movies,
Its pretty much correct to compare life with it because -
Some people Enjoy Every Bit of the ride, some feel good when u go up and cry when u go down and
some get scared and want to get down in middle.
But the rules and safety is same for all, Its the attitude that matters.

Its all up to you.. how you take it.. You get scared of falling down???  or you enjoy the ride with out fear.

Here is one real example for this..
Its one normal weekday, I am on the way to my room from office around 11 in the night.
I some how came till hitec city and got one auto after me 2 other guys got into the same auto.
breaking that night silence the auto driver had put some good songs.
These two guys beside me started discussing louder( may be because of their frustration)
The discussion is all about -
1.one guy is getting 5 lac package and its nt enough fr him cusring the peanuts he is getting.
2.other guy complaining about his bloody manager how he treats him.

The auto is going and the auto driver is very enthusiastic and happy started singing the song which was playing.
Am jst observing things, and the guy beside me shouted "bhaiyya, what are u doing?? y are u singing loud and at this time(11PM)??? (r u crazy?? kindaa words)
The auto driver replied -"Why is this life for if we cant sing along a good song and enjoy... "
A smile came on to my face and just cant stop admiring his energy and perspective towards life.
This little instance can prove that-
How much you earn, how many people are around you and what job you do - All these doesn't matter when you want to stay Happy. Its all in your perspective towards life. :)

Stay Happy...
Kepp Smiling... :)

PS: i have converted all the local language and hindi into english in the conversations.Also Please bare with my English. :P

It's a Worthy Day.. !!!

Dear World..
                      Like a routine day it started when i woke up at 8.
But met some Amazing people, then followed by an awesome Movie GabbarSingh with friends.
Now at the end of the day writing this First post of my New Blog.. :)

Wanna say about one person whom i met today.
He teach to kids in slum areas to make them better Indians(which many corporate schools are failing to do).

I still remember the lines he said "If education makes great people and country, why some of our educated Politicians, officers etc will be Corrupted???"
Its not only education we should teach to children, its the Values and Manners we need to inculcate in each child"

There are many people doing lot many things to make a better India. We are like a drop in an ocean.

Well.I feel each one of us should contribute something to our country.
There is something special in INDIA.. can be rich heritage or awesome minds or many other things.

I LOVE INDIA !!! 

Also like to quote a dialogue from the movie Gabbar Singh/Sholay, "Jo dar gaya samjho mar gaya"
Its true, If u r honest and pure don't fear of anything.. :)
 
Keep Smiling... :)